Monday Muse (of us are influenced and impressed by charismatic people. We seek to possess charisma that can influence and impress others
Charisma is a special quality of impact personalities whose principles, purposes and powers differentiate them from others. To be called charismatic is considered a valuable compliment!
Many of us believe that charisma is a trait that cannot be developed since it appears to be a deep-rooted personality characteristic. But, it is pertinent to note that it is a quality that can be acquired and learnt.
For example, being enthusiastic and emotionally expressive is a major ingredient for dishing out charisma – and surely, it is possible to learn to become emotionally expressive.
Look around at people whom you find charismatic. You will notice that they smile easily and seem constantly enthused. Notice that their ever eager energy is very visible.
They do not hold back their actual feelings. The best method to develop charisma is to express feelings more assertively, openly and freely.
More importantly, charisma is about transference. Others must validate our charisma. And they will do so, only if it impacts them positively.
The way to acquire charisma, according to Dan Reiland is, ‘Be more concerned about making others feel good about themselves than you are making them feel good about you.’
to acquire charismatic effectiveness
choose responsive expressiveness
- Pravin K. Sabnis
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