Monday, December 21, 2020

Story to Tell

Pedro was leading a group of teenagers on a cycling trail. A young girl slipped off her bike… her pants had a tear at the bruised and bloodied knee. Her friends gathered around and expressed concern. The young lady smiled and assured them, ‘it is a small thing!’ Pedro disagreed, ‘it is big… you have a story to tell!’

He was saying that the incident would turn into a story to be told. The trials and tribulations, the challenges and obstacles, the failings and failures… test our ability to cope with them. The hurt and the pain will fade but our response to it will turn into a worthy narrative.

It is important to note that our personality is empowered by such adverse situations if we take them on. The young girl was ready to move on and hence she would have a story to tell of her ability to rise after the fall. She chose to not be pulled back by momentary hardship.

We must be ready for setbacks and hurdles. They are part of life. Never mind the magnitude of an unexpected pushback, what matters is our comeback. We must remember the brave ones are the ones who face the deterrent, despite real or imagined intimidation.

Take ownership of every block that deters

A story to be told will rise from the jitters!

- Pravin K. Sabnis


Monday, December 7, 2020

Broken Cup

Young Ikkyu, happened to break his teacher’s antique teacup. Hearing the footsteps of his teacher, he held the pieces of the cup behind him. When the master appeared, Ikkyu asked: ‘Master, why do people have to die?’

‘This is natural,’ explained the older man. ‘Everything has to die and has just so long to live.’ Ikkyu, producing the shattered cup, said: ‘It was time for your cup to die.’

Like all Zen stories, there are lessons from the broken cup. We know the things we make will not last forever. Some things we make will join the heap. Some may last longer and inspire others too. We create things to be useful as well to last. But there will be a break point.

We must see the end as well as the beginning. The acquisition of an asset is the responsibility of its disposal. We must accept that our time is short. We will grow tired. Our utility will diminish. Our cup will break.

It is important to understand and accept that the cup will break. We can take outmost care and we could do everything in our capacity to ensure that it lasts. We have to move on without lamenting much for the broken cup. Instead bring to mind the joys it served!

Don’t cry for the broken cup & how it fell

Remember instead how it served so well!

- Pravin K. Sabnis