An old joke tells about a farmer’s dog that used to wait
for vehicles to come around. As soon as one appeared he would run down the
road, barking and trying to overtake it. One day a neighbour asked the farmer ‘Do
you think your dog is ever going to catch a car?’ The farmer replied, ‘That is
not what bothers me. What bothers me is what he would do if he ever caught one.’
The dogs are plain
playful or taking on an imagined foe. But, we must ponder whether we are in
futile pursuit of meaningless goals. We need to ask ourselves whether we will
find the goal to be worth the pursuit if we were to attain it.
Daniel Gilbert and
Loewenstein found through multiple experiments that humans can never be as
happy as we think we will be with an outcome. The research goes into depth
about human decision-making and the affects of our decisions. What
Gilbert has found is that we overestimate the intensity and the duration of our
emotional reactions – our “affect” – to future events.
For instance, we
might believe that a new car will make life perfect. But, surely, it will not be
as exciting as we anticipated; nor will it excite us for as long as predicted. Aldous
Huxley said it well: ‘Happiness is not achieved by the conscious pursuit of
happiness; it is generally the by-product of other activities.’
So
often, we set out in futile pursuit...
when at hand lies the happiness fruit!
when at hand lies the happiness fruit!
- Pravin K. Sabnis
Goa, India.
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