‘I have a right to be heard! I have a voice!’ -
George VI
The above line comes at a defining moment in the
award winning film ‘King’s Speech’. The King has the attitude, the aptitude and
all it takes to be a monarch. But he has a severe speech impediment. After
trying many options, he goes to an unorthodox speech therapist, Lionel Hogue.
Hogue’s highly effective methods are based on
getting his learners to believe they have a voice. He gets his learner to
unlearn negative strokes from the formative years of childhood. After all,
technique would be in vain in the absence of an empowered temperament. Attempts
at speech therapy fail until the teacher prods his student to declare his
‘right to be heard’.
Look around and you will notice little children
speak their mind out as they have no doubts about their right to be heard. But
as they grow older, they are conditioned to question that very right. ‘Don’t
speak’ is a very influencing statement that many get used to hearing and
believing! Other negative strokes further compound the problem.
Surely, it is a tragic when persons who have a
voice, find it difficult to speak. Besides, hurting their ability to
communicate effectively, it cripples their self-esteem and makes them more
vulnerable when faced with leadership opportunities. James Humes put it
pertinently when he said that ‘every time you speak, you are auditioning for
leadership’.
Competence can be harnessed only when we choose to
be better at confidence. In fact, in my Voice-vocabulary Optimisation Workshop (VOW),
the primary focus is on helping people reclaim the right to be heard and thus
find their voice. Once this is achieved, the subsequent empowerment, of voice
and vocabulary skills, is child’s play.
To
BE BETTER at finding, within ourselves, our liberated voice...
reclaim the right to be heard and escape the impediment vice!
reclaim the right to be heard and escape the impediment vice!
- Pravin K. Sabnis
Goa, India.
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