Monday, November 19, 2012

Struggle


A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. He watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through a little opening. To help the butterfly, he took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly emerged easily. But it had a swollen body and small, shrivelled wings. It never was able to fly.

When we lift weights in the gym, we experience a lot of pain. However, we know that the harder we push ourselves, the stronger we become. We see the pain is a good thing. Struggle becomes a source of enjoyment and accomplishment; when we take it on voluntarily. To enjoy life’s hardships, we must stop resisting them and stop seeing them as unfair. We must embrace the situation, and take pleasure in the difficulties.

It does not make the pain go away, and life does not become suddenly easy. However, by inculcating that sense of challenge and adventure, we give up that limiting belief that life is supposed to be easy. Instead of pining for something easier, we learn to enjoy the parts that are hard.

To better at living we must give up the dread of pain and hardship. So easily we find something new to worry about or fear. We strive to avoid the struggle, not realising that struggle is inevitable. It is pertinent to note that real strength is acquired through that very effort.

To BE BETTER at taking on every challenge…
Embrace the struggle’s accompanying pain!

- Pravin K. Sabnis

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