A Zen legend tells the tale of a great warrior, who though quite old, was able to defeat any challenger. His reputation extended far and wide throughout the land and many students gathered to study under him.
One day an infamous young warrior arrived at the village, determined to be the first man to defeat the great master. Along with his strength, he had an uncanny ability to spot and exploit any weakness in an opponent. He would wait for his opponent to make the first move, thus revealing a weakness, and then would strike with merciless force and lightning speed. No one had ever lasted with him in a match beyond the first move.
Much against the advice of his concerned students, the old master accepted the young warrior's challenge. As the two squared off for battle, the young warrior began to hurl insults at the old master. He threw dirt and spit in his face. For hours, he verbally assaulted him with every curse and insult known to mankind. However, the old warrior merely stood there motionless and calm. Finally, the young warrior exhausted himself. Knowing he was defeated, he left feeling ashamed.
Somewhat disappointed that he did not fight the insolent youth, the students gathered around the old master and questioned him. "How did you drive him away?" "If someone comes to give you a gift and you do not receive it," the master replied, "to whom does the gift belong?"
Tolerance when combined with dignity and clarity of thought makes for strong character in a human being. Character is all about developing the dimensions of tolerance, dignity and an open mind. In fact, the absence of broad-mindedness, leads to an attitude of intolerance. Mahatma Gandhi has shown us the way of disagreeing without being disagreeable, protesting without insolence and speaking without shouting. Gandhi’s satyagraha showed that tolerance, courage and truth were far more appropriate tools for achieving political and social goals than hatred and violence.
Hey, wait don’t hurry to react, let’s choose responsive dignity…
Tolerance will “develop new dimensions” in our personality…
Regards
Pravin
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