Monday, February 10, 2020

No time



A common refrain to avoid commitment: ‘I don’t have the time!’ However, it is necessary to examine the real reason. It could be a genuine case of having other priorities. But, more often than not it is about attitude, belief or plain skill.

Some of us have an attitudinal issue. We are reluctant to take on additional responsibilities. We may be disinterested or plain lazy. The rationale behind the approach has to be identified and tackled appropriately.

Some of us may have a belief burden that we actually don’t have the time. We may be thinking that we are less privileged compared to others. Surely, this is not true. Everyone has the same amount of time to a day. Not a second less or more.

Eventually it is about recognising that managing time is a skill. We have to plan and schedule priorities in terms of importance as well as urgency. We must estimate and budget time and use it as required.

But the key is to lead a full life involving in varied interests: self, family, career, community… in fact, those who involve in a good work-life balance find the time to do maximum tasks on their list. But those who needlessly complain that, ‘I have no time’ avoid measuring up to their full potential.

No time? Surely, this is not true…
Living a full life is not only for few!

~ Pravin K. Sabnis

Monday, February 3, 2020

Profess


B R Sachidanand was National Treasurer of JCI India in 1993 when I joined the organisation as a new member. I did not have the benefit of associating with the highly effective and efficient personality. But, over the last few years I meet him often for the ARALU student training program of the Jaycee School at Gadag.

Sachi Sir is a Muse who triggers introspection as well as action. Every time he speaks, he ends up sharing meaningful phrases and enlightening lines. (Monday Muse has featured him before) Recently when we met for the faculty meeting of ARALU, he spoke about the three Ps: profess, practise and propagate!

The concept was familiar as I had read it in Article 25(1) of the Constitution of India. However, Sachi Sir was showing fresh dimensions to ‘practise what you preach’. The new insight included three steps to ensure full connect with walking the talk.

The first step is to affirm one’s belief and ensure thorough allegiance to that belief. The second step is to align actions and behaviour to the declared belief, repeatedly and regularly in order to acquire proficiency in it. Only then we can take the third step of recommending it to others.

Sachi Sir had underlined the importance of affirmation as the first step. While, it is said that ‘practise makes perfect’, if we practise the wrong thing, then obviously, we are going to be perfect in the wrong way. Hence we must focus on the belief. We must ensure full immersion in it. The next two steps will follow easily.

Profess before you practise or propagate
Belief makes for a sound footing ultimate!

~ Pravin K. Sabnis

Monday, January 27, 2020

Many Hues



A teacher asks a student in the class, ‘How many colours make the Indian flag?’ The girl answers, ‘Five colours!’ The teacher is shocked. He repeats the question, ‘How many colours in the tricolour?’ The girl repeats her answer, ‘Five!’

The angry teacher asks the girl to stand up on the desk and repeats the question, but the answer remains unchanged. As the other students laugh at her answer, the livid teacher asks her to list out the colours.

The girl replies, ‘at the top is saffron, white in the middle, at the bottom is green... the Ashok Chakra in the centre is blue in colour…’ The humbled teacher asks, ‘And the fifth colour?’ The girl says in a gentle voice, ‘Red… of the blood that drenched the flag wrapped around the body of my father who died for the country…’

The teacher and the rest of the students learn an important lesson… so did we who watched the short film with an important message: Symbols in various images may not reflect the reality. Reality is multi-hued… multi-dimensional… made of multiple stories.

So often, so many of us focus on a constricted, coloured view. The limitations may arise from conditioned prejudice or superficial posturing or plain ignorance. We must look deeper and wider to notice multiple realities and be truly liberated!

Look again; our tricolour has many more hues…
Reality has more extents than the outward few!

~ Pravin K. Sabnis

Monday, January 20, 2020

T R O L L (on the internet)


Mirror on wall, mirror on wall
Watch out who is on virtual call
It starts with an indignant scroll
Then released is the vicious troll!

Mirror on ceiling, mirror on ceiling
Watch out who strangled feeling
Hurling abuse, going for the killing
The latest sin of inhuman trolling!

Mirror on floor, mirror on floor
Watch out who steps to score
A closed mind, a locked-up door
Trolls kick the wound till sore!

Mirror on screen, mirror on screen
Watch out for who just walked in
Masks slip and cover gets thin
Trolls scream in ravenous din!

Mirror in mind, mirror in mind
Watch out for who you find
Friends have put fiends behind
Trolls go distant from mankind!

Mirror immortal, mirror immortal
Watch out for malice on the portal
Trolls have chosen a blood thirsty ideal
A two-edged sword, killer and suicidal
Trolling is sadly both: killer and suicidal!

~ Pravin K. Sabnis

Monday, January 6, 2020

Blood on my Hand


Not just the brutal goons
I have blood on my hand...
I had asked for the strike
now they bloodied our land!

I stood safe on the shore
shouting till it hurt my gland...
When Blue Ocean turned Red
hues of hurt stained the sand!

I ignored that in a bull fight
taking sides may seem grand...
But not just the raging bull
gored oft are the cheering band!

Stoking fires is easily done
difficult it is to be manned...
It may seem a harmless sport
but blaze will get out of hand!

We must know the fallout
of taking an extreme stand…
Humanism, justice and peace
should be keys to every demand!

When I ask for the strike
they will drench again our land...
Not just the brutal goons
I will have blood on my hand!
I will have blood on my hand!!

~ Pravin K. Sabnis

Monday, December 30, 2019

Salute


Four years ago, on this day, iconic Marathi poet Mangesh Padgaonkar passed away. His poem Salaam (Salute) became the post-Emergency voice of dissent for Marathi writers and poets and won him the Sahitya Akademi Award. I posted the poem on social media and received accusatory backlash from a few friends.

They accused Padgaonkar of being a ‘disruptionist’ and a provoker of unrest. They blamed me for indulging in mischief. Their indignation was considerably countered when they were informed that it was written over 40 years ago. Of course, they were primarily offended because the poem held a mirror to their habit of saluting.
                                          
L K Advani had said of the Indian media (during the Emergency days) that they crawled when asked to bend. Similarly we find persons who salute their masters even when they don’t need to. Some do it out of fear, some do it for favour. Some do it to be on the ‘right’ side, some do it to ensure that no ‘wrong’ happens to them.

It was the survival instinct, an attribute Padgaonkar identified astutely, and attacked with vigour in the poem. He sketched the imagery of scared common man willing to salute anyone in authority and ever-willing to comply. While some of us may become like that, the day belongs to the ones who stand up for the values they care!

We must ask ourselves why we look up to authority with fear and trepidation. We must introspect whether we have aligned to bowing down even we have done no wrong. It is okay to salute another out of respect or for acknowledging what’s good. But to do so for fear or favour is a sign of letting go of human dignity.

Without the freight of fear or lure of favour
Salute with dignity to values that are dear!

~ Pravin K Sabnis

Monday, December 23, 2019

GiftTime


My father K N Sabnis taught me that the best present to give anyone is the gift of time. And till his passing away on 24 December 1994, he practiced what he preached. He would take great pains to visit people in their good as well as bad times. When it was not possible to visit, he would spend time to pen letters to communicate.

Time is a beautiful gift in life. The time and experience we spend with someone shows its meaning. Time is the best thing we can share with someone. Time is the resource that we all have in equal measure. All of us get a full 24 hours every day.

Time is also a precious gift because we only have a set amount of it. We can make more money, but we can't make more time. When we give someone our time, we are actually sharing a slice of our life. And to be able to do is so is to be truly wealthy.

But we do not want to part with our precious resource. Instead, we choose to offer pointless presents and material gifts. The best of intentions are meaningless when the eventual action is the gift of trash or the burden of obligation. Let’s choose to gift our time to everyone in our circle of concern.

Material nor money makes a merry chime
The best present is when we gift our time!

~ Pravin K Sabnis