Monday, March 3, 2025

Resoluteness

Alexander Graham Bell’s mother was deaf, and this had a profound impact on his life's work. His early education was marked by struggles, and he was labelled as ‘not academically inclined.’ However, his curiosity and passion for learning drove him to pursue his interests in science and technology.

 

His fascination with communication and speech led him to work on a device that could transmit the human voice over wires. He experimented, tested and refined his ideas, often facing disappointment and failure. His contemporaries ridiculed his ideas, but he never gave up.

 

His invention of the telephone transformed the world. It enabled real-time communication across distances, connecting people and facilitating global communication. 

 

His story is one of resoluteness and perseverance. His willingness to take risks led to his ground-breaking invention. He once said, ‘When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the ones which open for us’. 

 

Resoluteness is the spark that ignites the fire of success. By cultivating inner strength, individuals overcome obstacles, stay focused, build confidence and achieve goals. Resoluteness is not an innate trait; it can be developed and strengthened through practice, self-reflection and intentional habits.

 

Resoluteness will make you shine

As you face every test in due time!

 

-       Pravin Sabnis 

 

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Monday, February 24, 2025

Be together

In an Aesop fable, three bulls grazing in a meadow, were keenly watched by a Lion, who longed to eat them. However, whenever he came near, the three bulls turned their tails to one another, so that whichever way he approached them he was met by the horns of one of them. 

The lion began by spreading rumours to cause distrust among them. This method worked. The bulls grew cold and unfriendly towards each other. Finally they began to avoid each other and grazed in isolation. Sensing his opportunity, the Lion attacked them one by one and devoured all three.

 

The moral of the story is simple. The quarrels of friends are the opportunities of foes. A friendship that was built over a period of time could be undone by flimsy reasons. It takes considerable time and effort to build a friendship but it is so easy to undo the bond.

 

We allow frivolous talk to trigger the collapse of a relationship that took time to build. The very relationship, that united us to positively impact our lives, is prone to disruption because we stop continuous communication and actions for maintaining the bonding. 

 

Relationships thrive on the constant communication and belief in the bond. They are undone when distance creeps in the connection. Hence, it is important to keep in touch and ‘be together’ like the three bulls did to thwart the lion.

 

Be together for mutual gain

May the bond never strain! 

 

-       Pravin Sabnis 

 


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Monday, February 17, 2025

Dying with dignity

When he was born on 17 February 1930 in Calicut, Kerala, the astrologers refused to cast a horoscope for him. They predicted that he would die soon. But Basava Premanand went on to live an inspirational life of 80 years.

He started moved around India explaining tricks behind miracles. He founded FIRA: Federation of Indian Rationalist Associations. He authored 36 books & edited monthly ‘Indian Skeptic’ with articles on the scientific investigation of paranormal occurrences.

In 2006, he was diagnosed of extreme cancer of the stomach. Doctors insisted on an emergency operation, but he went off instead to search for a contractor to build his dream project - a museum on Method of Science. 

 

He handed over the money and came back for an operation that was unable to negate the shadow of death. Yet, his enthusiasm never diminished and the project was inaugurated on 5 March 2009 in Podnur.

‘Dying with one's boots on’ or ‘dying with dignity’ is used to describe persons who live life on their own terms, pursuing their passions and dreams until the very end. It's a mindset that embodies resilience, determination and an unwavering commitment to one's values and aspirations.

 

When we refuse to give up on our dreams, we open ourselves up to a world of possibilities. This unyielding spirit inspires others too. When we stay true to our values and passions, we can leave a lasting impact on the world, inspiring future generations to follow in our footsteps.

 

Dying with dignity, living with purpose 

Like Premanand live life to the fullest!


-       Pravin Sabnis 

 

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Monday, February 10, 2025

CAUCASIAN CIRCLE

On the day of Bertolt Brecht’s birth anniversary, here’s is a muse based on the playwright’s The Caucasian Chalk Circle. Brecht uses the device of ‘a play within a play’.

 

It is set in the Soviet Union around the end of WW2. It shows a dispute between the Collective Fruit Farm Galinsk fruit growing commune and the Collective Goat Farmers, over who is to own and manage an area of farm land after the Nazis have retreated from a village and left it abandoned. 

 

An old folk tale, is played out. A peasant girl who rescues a baby, becomes a better mother than the baby's wealthy biological parents. In the trial, the baby is placed on a circle and both ‘mothers’ are asked to pull it to their side, but the peasant girl refuses to do anything that will hurt the child. The true mother is obvious!

 

The circle teaches us the connection between the individual characters and the larger community, highlighting the importance of collective action and solidarity. We must understand the importance of collective action and the struggle for justice and equality. 

 

In the folk tale we learn that love overrides different truths which are after all just spins of perception and positioning. The circle of humanity should engulf all other circles, connected or not connected. Nothing is greater than justice born of sensitivity and sensibility.

 

In Caucassian Circle, truth is spun

Justice needs humanity to be won!

 


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Monday, February 3, 2025

Caution

In Greek mythology, a brilliant inventor, Daedalus and his son Icarus were imprisoned on an island. Daedalus built wings using feathers and wax. As they set out to fly, Daedalus warned Icarus to follow his path and not to fly too close to the sun, as the heat would melt the wax.  

However, Icarus, filled with excitement and a sense of invincibility, ignored his father's warnings and soared higher and higher. His wings melted and he plummeted down. Daedalus, devastated by his son's death, continued to fly, using his grief as motivation to reach safety.

 

Icarus' story serves as a warning about the dangers of unchecked ambition and the importance of balancing boldness with caution. Daedalus' ability to cope with his son's death and continue on his journey demonstrates the importance of resilience in the face of adversity.

 

Being adventurous makes one step out of limiting beliefs but prudence calls for heeding obvious caution. And when on the right track, we must not allow any setback to set us back from what we set out to do. We must maintain clarity and consistency in our actions. 

 

Resilience is consistent clarity of action

Boldness must be balanced with caution!


Pravin K. Sabnis

 

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Monday, January 27, 2025

Addiction

Addiction is a complex issue and contributing factors include family beliefs and peer groups that encourage addiction. Repeated use of addictive substances alter the brain's pleasure centres, leading to physical dependence. 

De-addiction is a process that helps individuals overcome addiction. It includes professional help, support from loved ones and a willingness to change. With the right support and treatment, individuals can overcome addiction and achieve a healthier, happier life.

 

Recognizing signs and symptoms of addiction is crucial in seeking help. These include increased tolerance (needing larger doses to achieve the same effect), withdrawal symptoms, loss of control and neglecting personal and professional responsibilities

 

De-addiction has challenges like relapse, mental health issues and even physical health consequences. Overcoming addiction requires a comprehensive approach that involves medical treatment, therapy, counselling and support groups.

 

Addiction can be overcome by a resolve to accept that it's okay to ask for help. The immediate family and friends must also accept that the addicted individual requires help and support. We must understand the gravity of addiction afflicting people around and also ourselves.

 

It is a great pain to be chained by addiction 

Love, help and care can repair the situation!


Pravin K. Sabnis

 

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Monday, January 20, 2025

Angels

The second edition of VAA (Vivekananda Angel Awards) is being organised by Ethernet Xpress Foundation on Tuesday 21 January, at Thomas Stephens Konkani Kendr, Porvorim, Goa. The occasion is birth anniversary of Swami Vivekananda as per Hindu calendar. These awards are given to those who are angels who help and support the underserved.  

The angels include Durgadas Parab for providing scholarships to needy students; Victor Hugo Gomes for nurturing and empowering artisans towards sustainability; Naman Sawant Dhawaskar for her work with children of Vanarmare tribe; and Sandeep Parab who rehabilitates the destitute.

 

People who help others in need are angels in deed. They may not have wings or halos, but they possess a kind heart, a willingness to listen and a generosity of spirit. They invest their time, money and effort in a single minded purpose to serve the underserved.

 

These angels may not be aware of the profound impact they have on others' lives. Their selfless acts, kind words, and compassionate presence brighten up lives, provides hope in difficult times and create a ripple effect of kindness by inspiring others to carry it forward.

 

Let's acknowledge and appreciate these everyday angels who make a difference in the lives of the underserved. They make a positive contribution to improve the situation for those in difficult times. We must join their cause and increase the number of human angels in the real world.

 

Be like these angels with hearts grand…

Brightening up lives with helping hands!


Pravin K. Sabnis

 

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